It Is Okay to Be the Bad Guy
There are moments we get wrapped up in conversations where we need to stand our ground when our positions are undoubtedly correct. We should forgo getting involved in trifling conversations. It is better understood as trivial matters by those who want to postulate. However, in the times that inquire about the principles of morality and have implications that affect more than self, it is okay to have confrontation. Whether or not who you speak with discerns your position, your goal should not be changing their mind. The willingness to be vocal without regard gives others a voice and sets a precedent. This response sends a ripple, allowing space for knowledge and insight. Resistance to a particular point of view that is misguided does warrant some feedback. I am not saying arguing about everything or confronting everyone is appropriate. I am saying speaking up is permitted. A lot of good comes from exposing the wrongs that arise in conflict. Maybe, sometimes, you need to be the loudest to be heard, and it is okay to be the bad guy.